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Mrs.Arson registered: 11/26/2004 00:00 posts: 591

HEY HEY HEY hey ya'll, i havent posted in a long ass time and i miss my hives companions!!! so ive been a busy little arsonist lately and i need some guy help from all you hives guys, and i love ya cause you love the hives and thats a must for my guy, so anywho, and girls can help me too... what do you do when you start to fall HARD for your close guy friend? its the hardest thing i ever deal with! the only person i ever fell for was close to me, and now its happening agian but a different, better, cuter, more important guy! and i need as much input as i can get PLEASE!!! help a sista out! i greatly appreciate it and i know you guys understand !

posted: 3/16/2005 18:56

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NesterVox22 registered: 12/27/2004 00:00 posts: 347	Umm... I'm a male.
posted: 3/16/2005 19:17	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

RockTheCasbah registered: 7/31/2004 00:00 posts: 148	disguise dress up as someone else and do him, he'll never have to know the truth
posted: 3/16/2005 23:09	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

HawleyLover registered: 2/5/2005 00:00 posts: 448	i agree with rockthecasbash that sounds like a good idea to me!
posted: 3/17/2005 04:36	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

skweetis2U registered: 8/5/2004 00:00 posts: 603	Tuff Stuff Yikes! that's a tricky situation - I would say - ultimately - it's up to you to let this guy know how you are feeling (hopefully in a fun and exciting way)then it really depends on how he responds doesn't it? If you are sure (who is?) then the sooner the better before you start acting out in strange ways (Tweekin!).
posted: 3/17/2005 07:08	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

bloodymary13 registered: 7/21/2004 00:00 posts: 1412

hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! missed ya!!!welcome back!!! haha ive liked one of my close guy friends before,i dunno i think it was when he tought me how to skateboard then i started to like him as more than a good friend lol but i didnt tell him that i liked him because i knew he didnt like me back but after a little while i got over him and started liking his friend :P and ummm i didnt tell him how i felt but i think you should because well..this was a long time ago when i liked him and i didnt really know anything back then

posted: 3/17/2005 07:59

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NesterVox22 registered: 12/27/2004 00:00 posts: 351	ooooooh Give him the hives! What foods is he allergic to?
posted: 3/17/2005 12:51	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

mop65 registered: 6/1/2004 00:00 posts: 273	y645y hide in his closet and watch him undress?! sorry i suppose that wasn't really the most onstructive response you could have got from me! ahh, it sounded gay as well! SHUT UP HOWARD i can give better advice online, mop65@homtail.com - add me to your msn doodle. councelling and guidence is free but confessionals are extra ;)
posted: 3/17/2005 13:03	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

kimbobway registered: 7/16/2004 00:00 posts: 1914	yeah, the same thing happened to me before... it SUCKS! i never did anything about it though because i didn't want to creep him out and ruin our friendship. my friend and her boyfriend successfully transferred from best friends to boyfriend/girlfriend though so it can work! i dunno, if you really want to tell him go for it, he should appreciate you for your honesty and whatnot.
posted: 3/17/2005 13:45	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

Mrs.Arson registered: 11/26/2004 00:00 posts: 593

... ohkay well thanks you guys, and i know this is an old thread but i havent been able to check since i wrote it...but my situation is my friend i actually had a crush on him in 10th grade (im in 12th now) and i didnt know what to do...so my other guyfriend told me to tell him, and i did...and at first he thought it was a joke, but then realized it wasnt...and we didnt talk for like a year and a half.... now, we are friends and pretend it never happened, thing is, we are so much in common that it hurts! i cant believe i fell for him agian and this is not like a stupid crush, this is really strong. i cant tell him agian and theres a whole other situation with another girl and shes happens to be my friend and his...too long to write tho so anywho, its making me feel really low and i dont know what to do to get over it all? it hurts so much! destrought and hopeless, mrs.arson yours truly

posted: 3/18/2005 12:56

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HeatherlovesTheHives registered: 2/8/2005 00:00 posts: 852	dude that sux i had the same exact prob only i fell in love with him in the 8th grade and i am a freshmen in college now and i havent seen him in over a year, cuz he moved away, but what you need to do is let every one involved know what your intetions are and that you dont want to hurt anyone, but that you can no longer ignore it
posted: 3/18/2005 13:10	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

RockTheCasbah registered: 7/31/2004 00:00 posts: 150	didn't talk for a year and a half? obviously he doesn't have the same feelings for you...just tough it out and stay friends
posted: 3/18/2005 14:03	Reply | PM | Edit | IP

bloodymary13 registered: 7/21/2004 00:00 posts: 1434

awwww that must have sucked!! like when he didnt talk to you for over a year,i guess it didnt turn out good that time!! but ya know what was sad about when i got over liking my guy friend and started liking his friend?his friend didnt even know my name!!he didnt know who i was really,i mean,he must have saw me at some point but he never talked to me before and he didnt know who i was!!he plays the drums for the jazz band at my school,and he did last year too,and the only time i communicated with him was when i told him how awesome he was at playing the drums!!and he would just smile at me and say "thanks!" lol :P and then on the year end trip last year,when we went on the horseback riding,i had to give him advice on how to ride!! and we happened to be doing all the same events(there was lots of events at the place we went to like swimming,map reading etc),and since we were in the same group then we had a map so that everyone would know where the events were,and im like "i cant read this thing" and hes like "not so good at geography?" and im like "yeah i just cant read maps!" and he looks at me weird and says "well how does that work?" and im like "i dunno,cuz miss clark thinks i deserve good marks" and he said "you confuse me.." and yeah we talked more that day and he still didnt know my name!! but all of this happened when i was over him :P and NOW!!NOW that im over him!i catch him checking me out in the hallways!!NOW THAT IM OVER HIM!! hahahahaha weird...:P

posted: 3/18/2005 17:54

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